How Do I Get Married in inZOI?
Marriage is a significant life event for Zois in inZOI, marking a major step in relationships and opening up new gameplay possibilities like starting a family. If you're ready to tie the knot for your Zois, this guide will walk you through the entire process, from building the necessary relationship to planning the perfect wedding ceremony.
Step 1: Building the Romantic Foundation
Before any proposals can happen, your Zois need to develop a strong romantic bond.
- Initiate Romance: Start by having your Zois interact frequently. Use friendly greetings initially, then move into Romance category interactions (found under "More" or sometimes suggested). Look for interactions with heart icons.
- Reach "True Love": Consistent positive romantic interactions (flirting, deep conversations, compliments, successful dates) will increase the pink Love meter in the Relationships tab (
R
). You need to progress through levels like Mutual Crush and Sweetheart. The goal is to reach the highest level: True Love. - "Select Relationship" Conversations: Remember to perform the necessary "Select Relationship" interactions when prompted to officially advance to the next relationship level (e.g., confirm becoming Sweethearts or True Loves).
Step 2: The Proposal
Once two Zois have reached the True Love status, the option to propose becomes available.
- Find the Interaction: Select one Zoi, click on their True Love partner, navigate to Romance interactions, and look for the "Ask Them to Marry You" option.
- Timing and Mood: Proposing while both Zois are in a good mood (like Happy or Aflutter) increases the chance of success.
- Success/Failure: If the proposal is accepted, both Zois will gain an "Engaged" status/moodlet, and new marriage-related options will appear. If rejected, the relationship meter will take a hit, and you'll need to build it back up before trying again.
Step 3: Getting Married - Two Options
After a successful proposal, you have two ways to make the marriage official:
Option A: Elope (Immediate Marriage)
- Interaction: After engagement, an interaction like "Get Married" (or similar wording) might appear immediately when clicking on the fiancé(e).
- Process: Selecting this option usually triggers a quick, private ceremony (often just a kiss or exchange of rings) between the two Zois, making the marriage official instantly without guests or a venue.
Option B: Plan a Wedding Event
This is the more elaborate and customizable option.
- Access Event Planning:
- Via Smartphone: Open the Smartphone (
P
), go to the Events app, select an available time slot on the schedule, and choose Make Event. Select Wedding as the Event Type. - Via Interaction: Sometimes, after engagement, an interaction like "Plan Wedding Together" might appear when clicking the fiancé(e). This often leads directly to the event planning screen.
- Via Smartphone: Open the Smartphone (
- Set Event Details:
- Name: Give your wedding a title.
- Duration: Set how long the event will last.
- Location: Choose a venue. This can be a residential lot (like home) or a dedicated Outdoor Wedding Venue community lot available in the cities.
- Invite Guests & Assign Roles:
- Click on Roles or Guests. Select Zois from the relationship panel to invite.
- You might be able to assign specific roles (like Officiant, although this isn't fully confirmed for base game).
- Set Dress Code: Choose the desired attire for the couple and guests (e.g., Formal, Casual).
- Choose Actions (Optional): Recommend or prohibit specific activities during the event to guide guest behavior.
- Finalize: Confirm the details to schedule the wedding.
Step 4: The Wedding Ceremony (Planned Event)
If you planned a wedding event:
- Travel: When the scheduled time arrives, you'll be prompted to travel to the wedding location with the engaged couple. Guests will arrive automatically.
- Scripted Actions: An event checklist or "Scripted Actions" panel often appears. You can click "Play" for key moments like "Walk Down Aisle," "Exchange Vows," and "Exchange Rings" to happen semi-automatically, or manually direct the couple to perform these interactions.
- Guest Interactions: Guests will mingle, eat, dance, or perform other allowed actions based on the venue and event settings.
- Completion: Once the main ceremony interactions are complete (or the event timer runs out), the marriage is official. A notification usually confirms the union.
Step 5: After the Wedding - Moving In
Immediately after the marriage becomes official (either via elopement or the conclusion of a planned wedding), a crucial pop-up window appears:
- Household Merge: You must choose where the newly married couple will live together.
- Move into one spouse's existing home.
- Move into the other spouse's existing home.
- Move the couple (and potentially other selected family members from either original household) into a new home from the map.
- Asset Transfer: You'll typically manage the transfer of household funds (Meow) during this process.
Important Considerations
- Age Requirement: Zois must be Young Adult or older to get married.
- Relationship Change: Upon marriage, the "Romance" relationship track between the spouses is replaced by the "Family" relationship track, starting at Neutral. They are now officially spouses.
- Same-Sex Marriage: Yes, inZOI supports same-sex marriage. Zois can propose to and marry partners of the same gender, provided their romantic preferences align. However, natural pregnancy is currently limited to Male/Female couples in the base game. The upcoming Adoption system (planned for May 2025) will provide family-building options for all couples.
- Divorce: Marriages aren't always forever. If the relationship sours significantly (often reaching "Distant" or lower on the Family track), the "Divorce" interaction will appear under the Conflict category.
- Household Limits: Remember the 8-Zoi household limit. If merging households after marriage would exceed this limit, you'll need to move some Zois out during the relocation step.